This weekend is one that many people look forward to all year. It is also one that many people dread each year. Valentines Day will be different for me this year. For the first time since high school, I am completely single on V-Day. As of now, it doesn't bother me and I don't think it will. On the other hand, it does bother most single women. In my experience, many women feel that if they don’t have a Valentine it's because they aren’t desirable. This is not true at all. Most men are afraid of rejection and will not ask out a woman that they believe will reject them. I believe there is no problem with a woman asking a man to be her Valentine. I have been asked by women on multiple occasions and it always gives me a higher level of respect for them. It takes a lot of courage for a woman to do so.
Making the day special, without breaking the bank, is something that men struggle with each year. There are numerous things you can do to make the day unique. Take your valentine to a place they have never been before. I suggest places quite and intimate. The Arboretum, Museum, and Opera are wonderful. If you're looking for something a little more contemporary, the Wax museum is a lot of fun. For new couples, it will give you a lot of material for future discussion. Your date will remember and cherish the activities of the day more than the actual gifts. Unless you have diamonds, lol. No matter what you do, be safe and have fun
-Mobley
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